ok it is a cookie problem
It does seem to be a cookie problem, I will go over via email with you until its fixed.
problem identified and being fixed
The short version
The problem comes from AOL.
The long version.
The board keeps track of people by their addresses, and on AOL, it changes constantly, almost every time you open up a new web page, it comes from a different AOL proxy, and the board thinks since you have a different address, you are a different person.
Im making the code changes to fix this, I'm going to do a little testing at home on it before it goes on the running board, but it will be fixed pronto
Mike