I don't think your being an ass hole at all Mark and I was trying to more or less suggest the same thing.
Somethings you can blatantly feel down about - maybe its the actions of a label, person or whatever but you have to turn the situation on it's head and see how you can possibly benefit from it.
Keep positive... if you write of hardstyle before it get's a chance to grow than what possible chance will it have of surviving?
:)