Although I dont use fruity to make my tracks I reckon its sounds BETTER than programs like ACID & Reason and its simple to use. Your problem with people saying it sound like it was made in fruity well is probably because it WAS made in fruity. Its like some guitarist saying to another guitarist.. that sounds like a fender or a vox amp or something. Fruity just does something to the characteristics of the sound to er.. well make it sound like fruitlyloops. The key (if you are just using software) is to mix and match.. sounds from fruity/mixed with sounds\sequences from abelton/acid etc. Even better.. start collecting that hardware...
PS: The fruity playlist sucks... i gave up on it ages ago but the best tip for people who find that they are having to go back over the track to make edits is just to draw PATTERNS 1-200 in a diagonal line all the way across\down before you even start making the tune. That way you will always be able to make edits wherever is necessary without having to delete patterns and resize them.. also gets rid of the whole 'I can seeeee the break coming in 2 minutes before it does' bullshit which wrecks my head.. I hate 'seeing' my songs...!