So then post on your forum.
We're trying to keep things productive and positive around here.
Pro active even.
Why sit there and dwell on past mistakes and dumb short comings, there's a genre all for that called emo.
For real b. It can put you off all it wants to. The lot of people here are pro active and involved as you are no doubt. But we can either dwell on whats wrong and say it sucks, or address it note it to not repeat it and move ahead. Not stagnant.