all you say its true and i know that , i use microsoft products sinze 1986 , and now i use linux and mac too
see this:
i have Microsoft Windows Server 2003 R2 Enterprise Edition
all tweeked to act like windows XP ( 5 seconds or less to boot , and 1 or 2 to shutdow on a old P4 3200mhz + 2GB ram dualchannel) and only waste 80mb ram without antivirus installed
THIS IS FROM MICROSOFT SITE check if you not beleave:
Microsoft Windows Server 2003 R2 Enterprise Edition RAM SPECS
"64 GB maximum for x86-based computers; 2 TB maximum for x64 and ia64 computers"
Microsoft Windows Server 2003 Enterprise Edition (standard version) RAM SPECS
"32 GB for x86-based PCs with the 32-bit version and 64 GB for Itanium-based PCs with the 64-bit version"
im not joking i just want to help!
if anyone want to start using windows 2003 server check this site for tips and tweeks:
http://win2k3.msfn.org